Not Nice by clinical psychologist Dr. Aziz Gazipura is the liberating guide for chronic people-pleasers. If saying yes when you mean no, avoiding conflict, and silencing your real thoughts has become automatic, this book shows exactly how niceness holds you back — and rebuilds your ability to speak up, set boundaries and ask boldly for what you want.
Inside
- Why “being nice” is often fear in disguise
- Step-by-step assertiveness training that actually sticks
- Handling guilt, conflict and others’ reactions
- Written with humour by a practising psychologist
Book Details
| Title | Not Nice |
| Subtitle | Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty… And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, And Unapologetically Being Yourself |
| Author | Aziz Gazipura, PsyD |
| Binding | Paperback |
| Language | English |
| ISBN-13 | 9780988979871 |
| Genre | Confidence / Psychology |
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the price of Not Nice in India?
₹499 for a new paperback at TheBooksTank.
Who should read Not Nice?
Anyone who over-apologizes, avoids conflict, or struggles to say no.
Is it practical?
Very — includes exercises, scripts and real-world challenges.
Shipping?
Fast delivery across India.
Will I receive a brand-new copy?
Yes — every order from TheBooksTank ships brand-new, carefully packed to arrive in perfect condition.
What if my book arrives damaged?
Contact our support within 48 hours with a photo and we will arrange a free replacement — no hassle.
Is Dr. Aziz a real psychologist?
Yes — Aziz Gazipura holds a PsyD and runs the Center for Social Confidence.
Will introverts benefit?
Very much so — the book targets social fear rather than personality change.
What Readers Say
Break people-pleasing · by Aziz Gazipura
★★★★★ “Gazipura’s ‘not nice’ frame freed me from a lifetime of over-apologizing. Thank you.”
— RecoveringPleaser · Goodreads
★★★★☆ “The scripts for saying no are worth the price. Applied one the same week.”
— Amazon customer (verified purchase) · Amazon
★★★★★ “As a lifelong people-pleaser, this book felt like permission to exist. Powerful.”
— @say_no_daily · Instagram
★★★★☆ “Aziz blends therapy and coaching better than most. Practical and kind.”
— ConfidenceCoach · Reddit r/socialanxiety
★★★★★ “A standout in the self-help space. Direct without being harsh.”
— GrowthMindset · Twitter/X
Reader reviews sourced from public platforms (Goodreads, Amazon & book communities) and lightly edited for length.
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